It may be useful to write down your physical and emotional reactions to the thought of ending things. It's not that large numbers of men prefer porn to a partner, it's that they prefer porn to their current partner. That works for men, too, but men can also pursue another strategy—sex with as many women as possible to impregnate as many as possible. Sex and love aren't synonymous, and everyone is ready for sex at different times. This is powerful stuff so you need to understand how to do this correctly. A little reading on this sub will show how common it is for one partner to just be done with a relationship after five years of marriage and two kids when the problem was there long before the wedding.
If suddenly, your girlfriend's friends are nowhere to be found, and she wants to spend a lot of time alone with you, in one of your homes or bedrooms, then it's likely that she wants to get intimate -- to some degree.
'My girlfriend keeps saying no to sex'
I am a 25 year-old male in college. She came over after I got home from work at 10pm and while we laid in bed I asked if she was ok, she said yes but it was obvious she wasn't. They take longer to warm up and get turned on in different ways. Tips Don't pressure her into it, let her make her decision slowly. Eventually, it got too much for me. Thanks for your time.